Sunday, 19 June 2011

Father;s Day


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What Makes a Dad
God took the strength of a mountain,
The majesty of a tree,
The warmth of a summer sun,
The calm of a quiet sea,
The generous soul of nature,
The comforting arm of night,
The wisdom of the ages,
The power of the eagle's flight,
The joy of a morning in spring,
The faith of a mustard seed,
The patience of eternity,
The depth of a family need,
Then God combined these qualities,
When there was nothing more to add,
He knew His masterpiece was complete,
And so,

He called it ... Dad

~~Author Unknown.~~

Fathers Day is such a bitter sweet day!  For those who are celebrating with their dad, it is a great way to show your appreciation for his love and support.  For many who no longer have their dad's with them, it can be a sad day serving as another reminder that they are no longer here to show that love.

I am somewhere in the middle,my dad is still here in person but in his mind he has gone back several decades to a time when he was probably at his happiest, working hard, busy and earning money. He is in a care home as his type of dementia can lead to violent outbursts with frustration and he needs 24 hour care.

He is incredibly loving and at the moment knows us....most of the time.  When we visit he is always trying to move us along as he needs to be working or speaking to the boss about work.  He is a mere shadow of the supportive, caring, strong man that he used to be.

I will celebrate this special day with him and treat it as a blessing that I still can.  For all those who have their father's in their lives, cherish them and let them know how much they mean to you.  For those who no longer have their father's in their lives may you feel their loving energy around you today.

Love and Blessings

Jean Fisher-Taylor x

Saturday, 18 June 2011

I'm no Superwoman!


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I have a confession to make.....I am not Superwoman!  This realisation hit me this week when all my juggling balls that are neatly kept up in the air, plopped down one by one and hit me on the head!

I took a couple of days out to recharge my Wonderwoman batteries (Well...Superwoman was too hard to be) and had a long hard look at priorities.  I also took some of my own advice, remembering the piece that stated "We are human beings not human doings!" Well I had ignored those wise words and forgot to say the word NO to any requests last week.  As a result I was a bedraggled, energy zapped figure who had to stop.

I am now back on top form with the necessary balls back up in the air where they belong and with quite a few of the other balls that were competing for time and energy, discarded.

I read this piece on giving by my ever favorite writer Aine Belton.  It reminds me to give myself where it is needed and to those I care about most instead of trying to spread myself too thin to be of use or value to anyone.

"You are being asked to put your love into action in some way.

Is there someone in particular you’ve been withholding love or giving from, or you could express more of your love to in some way? Or have you been shying away from life in general and not sharing your gifts, presence or love in some way? Have you been ‘too busy’ and not found the time for those people who matter to you? The greatest gift you have to give people is YOU! Are you giving you? Are you there for people?
There are many ways you can give and share, which I detail shortly. Do so in a way that brings you joy and does not feel like a sacrifice, as that is not what true giving is about.
What’s important here is that this giving is genuine and heartfelt. I’m not talking about martyr hood or obligation here. I’m talking about sharing and expressing your love and care in a way that feels meaningful to you, which is a blessing to others, as well as yourself.
Giving when your heart isn’t in it, or giving-to-get (which isn’t giving at all), or giving out of a feeling of duty or obligation is also not authentic giving, and the person at the ‘receiving end’ won’t feel really like they’ve been given to, as what is received most is the energy and intention behind the giving. That’s why even the smallest act or gift can have the biggest impact if coming from a loving place.
Get in touch with the love and care you have for someone and act from this place.
Let your abundance shine by giving to others, not just in the tangible physical sense, but by giving of who you are and expressing your love, appreciation and gratitude to those around you. You can give in energy, in your thoughts, blessings and well-wishes too, and send love from a distance, silently even.
There are many ways you can give, and it’s certainly not money-bound.
You can give of your time, appreciation, care, well wishes, talent, prayers, nurturing, inspirations, attention, information, touch, wisdom, hope, support, thoughts, blessings, and so on. You may also want to give some of your income away, such as through tithing 10% to a charity each month if you feel financially comfortable to do so.
Give in a way that feels true to you.
Don’t deny yourself or others the wonders and rewards of giving.” ~Aine Belton
Ultimately it is the intention behind your giving that is more important than the actual means of giving. It is you desire to help, your love, care and the expression of that.

Give in a way that brings you joy and have fun sharing your heart!"

Love and Blessings,

Jean Fisher-Taylor x

Tuesday, 14 June 2011

Creative Workshop



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In a previous blog I spoke about daydreaming and going into a Creative Workshop.  I had several messages from readers asking me for more information about this so I am dedicating today's blog to Creative Workshops!

I first heard of this concept through Abraham-Hicks book The Law of Attraction.  They suggest that when you are looking to manifest something wonderful in your life that you take at least 15 minutes everyday to consciously daydream about what you want.

For example if you wanted to move to a new home, you would be encouraged to daydream about how the house would look......

what colour would you paint the front door?,
what would the garden look like?,
what would you plant?,
how would you decorate each of the rooms?
what would your dream kitchen look like?
how would life feel living in a new home?
in what ways would it improve your family life?

So as you can see there are plenty of things you can consciously think about to draw your desire closer to you.  You can also bring clippings from magazines and books that appeal to you and either spend time looking at them and imagining having them in your life right now or you could begin to take the workshop to another level by creating a dream board.  This is where you collect pictures, words, phrases and anything that is related to your dream and then create a collage that you can use everyday to visualise your desire.

The important thing is to take some time out each day to dream and to manifest, when you start to see real results happening you will know that you have the inner power to create miracles and magic in your life whenever you need to!

Love and Blessings,

Jean Fisher-Taylor x

Monday, 13 June 2011

Dreams are nothing more than wishes and a wish is just a dream you wish to come true!



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Welcome to another new week! Today is Mantra Monday and today I have chosen is;

"I acknowledge that I am the source of what I manifest"

As you all know by now, I am a huge fan of positive thought and intention.  One of the things that were high on my list to be manifested was to become a published writer.  In my head I imagined that this would be a book that I want to write....however, the universe responds in other ways too and I have taken up a new role with Brew Drinking Thinking as a Wellbeing writer for their on-line magazine.  I will be submitting articles on

Angels, Happiness and Wellbeing, Coaching and Therapies!

This is a dream job, manifested by thought, belief and intention.  I am no different to any other being, I have no more magical abilities to manifest that any one of you magnificent people.  Dream your dreams a size too big and then grow into them.  Visualise the outcome, feel it in your bones and then just wait for your heart's desire to come to you at the most perfect moment in time for you!

Happy manifesting and remember you can manifest a castle just as easy as a button as told to us by Esther and Jerry Hicks.

Love and Blessings,

Jean Fisher-Taylor x

Thursday, 9 June 2011

Higher Self


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I read this posting from Aine Belton - I am a huge fan of her work and wanted to share this article with you!
By Aine Belton
 Your Higher Self is the aspect of your consciousness closest to Source – the eternal spiritual being that you really are beyond your personality self.
This ‘you’ exists beyond space and time and the confines of this third dimensional reality, and is the overseer of your multi selves – past, present and future, conscious and subconscious.
Your Higher Self is more loving, wise, and magnificent than anything you may imagine. It knows all you have been, all you are now, and all you are becoming, in this life-time and others, and is aware of the countless possibilities available for your growth and success and that which will serve you optimally.
Your Higher Self knows you inside out and loves you totally and unconditionally. Its love and vast, all-encompassing perspectives can gift your life immeasurably, pierce the veils and limits of your personal beliefs and limited understandings, and bring truth and light to even the darkest areas.
You can connect and communicate with this exalted self and receive its love, guidance, healing and support (I share one way of doing so at the end of this article).
It is important to ask for help, and be open and willing to receive it, for your Higher Self loves and respects you too much to force anything upon you. It is, however, ever at your side, whether you are aware of that presence or not, and always willing and desiring to help.
The voice of your Higher Self is always loving and kind about you, though it can be direct at times. It does not pander to pity, but does have great compassion for you, and wishes only for your return to truth; the truth of who you are, and the truth that you are loved, loving and loveable, ever and always.
Your Higher Self can communicate with you in any number of ways. Your intuition and subtle senses can be gateways to receive its insights, but there are many other ways, one of which I outline further below.
Meditation creates fertile ground for the voice of your higher self to be heard. When your conscious mind is quiet and stilled, space is created for inspirations to be received, as well as a balancing and realignment of your energy. Getting off the hamster wheel of your ‘monkey mind’, with its tape-loops of constricting thoughts and feelings, allows space for higher wisdom to dawn.
The wisdom of your higher self is sourced in love, will optimally serve you, and reaches beyond the confines of your conditioned mind. It is the golden compass that points ever towards the truth of who you are, your highest path and potential, the true nature of reality, and the love at the heart of all.
When you connect to this ‘grander you’, the unlimited divine being that you are, you become aware not only how immeasurably loved you are, but that all you need exists within you.
Video about the Higher Self


Meditation to Connect with your Higher Self
As mentioned, I believe meditation is one of the best ways to connect to your Higher Self, as is anything that enhances greater love in your life – love for self, others and the world.
Below is an example meditation you might like to explore to connect with your Higher Self. If visualization is not your thing, I’ll be sharing a writing technique in a future post, and intuition practices can also help you build pathways to your Higher Self and spiritual insights and guidance beyond the everyday perspectives of conditioned thinking.
1. Relax, close your eyes, and enter a meditative state in whatever way works for you by calming your mind and getting to a still, quiet, and deeply relaxed space. Perhaps by taking a hot soothing bath, listening to relaxing music, counting backwards, slowing your breathing, imagining pleasant imagery, or you might want to listen to the relaxation intro of a guided meditation recording if you have one.
2. When deeply relaxed, imagine a place in nature in your mind’s eye. This could be an somewhere you’ve been before, or somewhere entirely new made up with your imagination, whether it’s an ocean beach, forest grove, the bank of a riverside, a garden or meadow or mountain top.
If visualization isn’t your thing, just get in touch with a sense of it if nothing else, as this is what’s most important, and your intention is what matters.
Make this place as vivid as possible by engaging all of your senses. Try to see any sights you can in detail, smell the air, feel the breeze against your face, and the ground beneath you, reach out and touch something and make it real.
3. Now allow your Higher Self to come to you. For this, have them appear as a human being, likely your gender, seeing them walking towards you, some way away perhaps. They can adopt a human form to better interact with you. Don’t worry if you feel like you’re just imagining it or making it up; your imagination is a platform to help co-create the experience, and the energy of your Higher Self can still come and be with you.
4. See your Higher Self walk towards you. See the love in their eyes, and experience them reach out their hands to embrace you. Feel that embrace. Allow yourself to be received by them.
However vividly or vaguely you experience them, know that they are there and have come to be with you. Just be open to their presence.
If you find it easier, simply imagine them as shimmering light of some kind (such as spherical or oval in shape, or whatever feels comfortable).
Allow that light to wrap around and embrace you in its glowing love.
5. Now together, spend some time with your Higher Self. You may have some questions to ask, in which case see if you hear a reply or if an awareness, image or thought dawns on you. As I am more visual than audio inclined, I sometimes imagine my Higher Self with a white-board and see them writing answers, either in pictures or words, for example. Sometimes I get them to write a message with their finger on my back, letter by letter, as I am sensitive to touch.
Just be open and explore, there’s not q wrong or right way of doing this exercise. If you experience little consciously, that’s OK, just know that they are there for you and love you totally and unconditionally. Make an intention to open to this love if nothing else.
One thing you can do is simply lie down in this place in nature in your mind’s eye and ask your Higher Self to heal you. You may see or sense them placing hands over or upon areas of your body, or light or energy. You may feel emotions or thoughts move through you. You may sense nothing it all, which is also fine. Just be open to receive this healing and allow whatever needs to be done occur at a more subtle energetic level.
This meditation becomes more and more vivid with practice. Like everything in life, new pathways of experience need to be built through flexing like muscles.
If visualization isn’t your ‘thing’, I’ll be sharing a writing technique for connecting to your Higher Self in a future issue.
Love and Blessings,

Jean Fisher-Taylor

Tuesday, 7 June 2011

What you focus on grows.....!



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'I achieve everything I need to succeed easily, effortlessly, excellently, enjoyably, smoothly, successfully, swiftly, marvelously and miraculously this week', and that's exactly what will happen:

I received this email from the Barefoot Doctor yesterday and I loved the above mantra he uses to create a fantastic week so I want to share it with you.  Also he gives a link to his song "Get Spanky" which makes me laugh out loud as it is both cheesy and meaningful!!!

Here it is......

Hi dear Jean

Faced with all the things you have to do this week, based on the
notion that what you focus on grows, tell yourself, 'I achieve
everything I need to succeed easily, effortlessly, excellently,
enjoyably, smoothly, successfully, swiftly, marvelously and
miraculously this week', and that's exactly what will happen: it's
pure wu wei magic.

In promotion of this notion, I let as many people as possible know
about the wee video I made with my friend Leakster, 'Get Spanky',
which compounds the what-you-focus-on-grows concept in comedic
style and so helps alter your approach to life from within by
appealing to your inner child. See it here:

http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=CRwp_&m=3bCOiSBpHN6C1uF&b=4NGDNh1Rz_gvuSXxgmzSTg

And because so many people were away at the time - I could tell by
the high number of out of office responders - I thought it only
proper both in service to you and the work, to let you know again
should you have missed it the first time round. There's an EP of
wonderfully consciousness-altering pieces with an edifying PDF
called 'What You Focus On Grows' now available at iTunes:

http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=CRwp_&m=3bCOiSBpHN6C1uF&b=KBLPjxvJsoFiNz.0pvTU5w

And there's a free audio podcast gift explaining the underlying wu
wei philosophy behind the music you might enjoy - click on the link
and scroll
down to the top audio entry:

http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=CRwp_&m=3bCOiSBpHN6C1uF&b=B1VJ0Y3E7B1VhRmEt2.JSA

And if you have seen Get Spanky and felt it changed your day let
everyone know about it, as it would be a great thing for us to
influence the whole world to focus on what they wanted to grow,
which beyond the selfish would ultimately be a world of peace, love
and plenty for all:

http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=CRwp_&m=3bCOiSBpHN6C1uF&b=4NGDNh1Rz_gvuSXxgmzSTg

May your day be resplendent with peace, love and plenty.

With love, BD

Love and Blessings,

Jean Fisher-Taylor x

Monday, 6 June 2011

Tell me what you want...what you really, really want!



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"A lot of people are afraid to say what they want. That's why they don't get what they want." Madonna

Monday Mantra for today..."I easily identify what I want in life and I truly believe I will receive it"

Quite often we dream about the future and let our imagination create wonderful pictures and scenarios where we have all we need for a magnificent life.  All too often we cancel out those dreams with negative doubts.

I have heard friends and clients say that they would like to move to a bigger house, with a large garden or they would like to change their careers.  Within the same sentence they have told me why it is not possible.  Lack of finances, slump on the housing market, fear of leaving a secure job etc etc.

When you idenitify what you want, dream it, see it, feel it and then simply get out of the way and just believe that it will happen.  Esther and Jerry Hicks recommend going into you "Creative Workshop", this is a 15 minute daydreaming period where you imagine what you want. 

EVERYTHING starts with a thought....so make your thoughts positive ones!

Love and Blessings,

Jean Fisher-Taylor